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stevenrosas:

A long-distance relationship is no different from a proximal relationship in that they both require a great deal of work, excellent communication, patience, sacrifice and understanding. But you will have to work extra hard to maintain the communication and to stay focused enough to not let your daily life interfere with your desire to be with the other person. Don’t forget them or you can forget the relationship and it will all be over.
 You have to try to do things together, as a long distance couple it’s important to do other things together besides the usual phone call. In a long distance relationship, incorporating other forms of interaction are important. People in short distance relationships don’t spend the majority of their time together, or they easily get tired of each other. Try to find things you to can do together even if you’re far away. Schedule movie dates, webcam with each other, do your homework together, fall asleep on the webcam and wake up in the morning to each other, there’s many things to do so you never feel alone.
Talk about future plans, talk about the things you are looking forward to once you two can be together again. Assuming that ultimately you’d want to be together forever, talk about how you’re going to get to that point where you guys can be together and have each others touch again. One of the easiest ways to destroy a perfectly healthy relationship is to mix it with jealousy and drama. When you start a long distance relationship, you must be realistic of the difficulties ahead. Don’t fall in the trap of interrogating your partner every time they decide to go out. Just because you are in a long-distance relationship doesn’t mean your lives will pause. Your partner will naturally have a social life where they live and so should you.
A relationship must be built on strong foundations of trust, understanding and determination to make it work. That creates a common goal for you to work towards developing a strong relationship whether you are together or apart. For example, agree to disagree, accept each other as you are, practice trust and honesty, strive towards compromise and self-sacrifice. Long distance relationships are difficult, as you are emotionally attached to a person you cannot touch and this can hurt your heart. The only way to make these relationships work is if you and your partner honestly believe you will be able to survive without each other for a considerable amount of time. It is very important that if you want this relationship to work, you must make a great effort to not drift apart and always remember the number one reason why you got into one in the first place. <33 SR

stevenrosas:

A long-distance relationship is no different from a proximal relationship in that they both require a great deal of work, excellent communication, patience, sacrifice and understanding. But you will have to work extra hard to maintain the communication and to stay focused enough to not let your daily life interfere with your desire to be with the other person. Don’t forget them or you can forget the relationship and it will all be over.

 You have to try to do things together, as a long distance couple it’s important to do other things together besides the usual phone call. In a long distance relationship, incorporating other forms of interaction are important. People in short distance relationships don’t spend the majority of their time together, or they easily get tired of each other. Try to find things you to can do together even if you’re far away. Schedule movie dates, webcam with each other, do your homework together, fall asleep on the webcam and wake up in the morning to each other, there’s many things to do so you never feel alone.

Talk about future plans, talk about the things you are looking forward to once you two can be together again. Assuming that ultimately you’d want to be together forever, talk about how you’re going to get to that point where you guys can be together and have each others touch again. One of the easiest ways to destroy a perfectly healthy relationship is to mix it with jealousy and drama. When you start a long distance relationship, you must be realistic of the difficulties ahead. Don’t fall in the trap of interrogating your partner every time they decide to go out. Just because you are in a long-distance relationship doesn’t mean your lives will pause. Your partner will naturally have a social life where they live and so should you.

A relationship must be built on strong foundations of trust, understanding and determination to make it work. That creates a common goal for you to work towards developing a strong relationship whether you are together or apart. For example, agree to disagree, accept each other as you are, practice trust and honesty, strive towards compromise and self-sacrifice. Long distance relationships are difficult, as you are emotionally attached to a person you cannot touch and this can hurt your heart. The only way to make these relationships work is if you and your partner honestly believe you will be able to survive without each other for a considerable amount of time. It is very important that if you want this relationship to work, you must make a great effort to not drift apart and always remember the number one reason why you got into one in the first place. <33 SR


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